Showing posts with label love. Show all posts
Showing posts with label love. Show all posts

Saturday, December 13, 2008

Forever Love?

Is it even realistic to expect a relationship to last forever? Personally, I don't think so. I just don't get why people constantly enter into relationships thinking "this is the one" then for whatever reason it's over. Then the cycle continues and you get all heartbroken and depressed. I don't think think I've ever entered a relationship thinking that I'd be with that person forever. Even with my most recent ex. Our relationship was GREAT! Even though it was all good, I never thought that he was my future. Even when he would say " I can see us together forever" I just couldn't get on that same level in my head, I most definitely did not agree with his statments. I was just enjoying us at the time and seeing where it took us.

Why can't relationships just "be"? Why do we have to add all that pressure of lasting forever. In my opinion we need to last however long we can make it and if something happens that prevents "us" then oh well we're done and thats life.

Maybe it's just me. Maybe I'm afraid of commitment, Maybe I'm a bit jaded from my experiences and those I've seen, Maybe I haven't lived long enough to know what I'm talking about, I don't know I guess its something.

Friday, October 31, 2008

My first time!

So today was my first time! I'm so excited I just have to tell somebody. It was so much better than I thought it would be. I must admit I was very nervous but I eventually just let go of all reservations and went with the flow. I don't know why but I thought it was last alot longer than it did. I was expecting for it to be hours but it wasn't that long but it was still good though. I started to lose patience though, I mean after waiting all this time I was just ready to get right to it. Eventually I learned that there was a process to it all and I would get what I came for in due time. So I must say overall it went very well and I can't wait todo it again. I even got a sticker afterwards. Guess what it said...? " I voted" lol yep today was the very first time I voted! Lol, you little nasties thought I was talking about something else huh? I was only talking about voting here folks! If you haven't voted then you need to get out there and do it! Youth voters especially they are trying to count us out so the 18-24 age group better get out there show up and show out its time to be heard.